Yesterday at this time:
Surprise call from Tharini.
(why is she calling at this hour?)
T: Have you checked your email?
Yeah…
T: Have you opened your reader yet?
No…(I told you I’ve been shutting it off so I can actually get some work done…)
T: Well, you need to tell Boo and the others that they are not going ot get anywhere..
Huh?? What are you talking about?
(*Nambiyar style laughter*) Good, good, you’re not supposed to know what I’m talking about..(*more laughter*)
I don’t understand
Go check Boo’s blog
What the hell is happening here? Wait, are you scheming something?
(*evil laughter*) That’s all I have to say – you guys have so much waiting for you, you don’t even know..
Which guys?
Go, go, read Boo’s post…Bye.
And with this clueless clue, I opened Boo’s site to see a list of 10 blogs, and 60 comments on one post. Could I possibly be any late to the game?? Where would I even begin?!!!
That’s how it started. Hop from one, pick up a letter, solve the riddle, hop to the next. It was all too much to take in one shot – had to make some sense of it and I whipped out my trusty Excel. Even with that, I was getting too excited, forgetting to write down letters, peeking in the comments before trying to solve it myself and on and on. Till I finally got a hold of myself and started solving (a lot of them wrong!!) and slowly, the pieces fell into place.
Mid afternoon:
T: So how are you doing so far?
If I get fired today, you are to blame!
T: But you’re not supposed to be solving today – wait till tomorrow and you’ll get the clue.
How do you expect me to sit tight when there is so much action? The riddles are bloody brilliant and clever as hell!
And so it went…emergency conferences among the MTBs who were awake and not preparing for an exam (sorry, DG!), exchanging tips with Maggie, double checking guesses with Poppins, and on and on, swapping clues, brainstorming…my gmail was packed with action.
But this was just the beginning. Tharini had told me this over and over, but it didn’t hit me, till I got to the shower site and WHAM!
How much can you take in in one day? It was impossible – that this was happening…the scale of it, the perfection, the details, Oh MAN the details! Did you guys miss out ANYTHING at all? The header, the template customization, the chat window, the About page, the Doula Gang intro.
How did you all pull everything together with such absolute harmony?
Even the name Doula Gang – because that’s exactly what you guys are, isn’t it? You are our unflailing support structure, the shoulders we lean on, the arms that will embrace us - you are the ones we’ll come running to with every problem from Why hasn’t his cord fallen off yet? to Help! He already knows about the birds and bees!
I clicked on ‘Wait! there’s More’ – and there was more, and more. And more and more. How much time, how much thought, how much care invested in every word, in every curve of the graphics, in every color scheme, in every widget. I am sure I haven’t grasped every single detail of it yet, I will be visiting over and over and catching little things every time, and assimilating it all in, soaking in the joy of it, basking in the kind of love that can only emanate from words.
What had I done to deserve this much blessing and love from people I hadn’t even said hello to online?
What could I possibly do to reciprocate the generosity – or even come close? How will I ever say thanks?
I don’t have the answer to these questions – the sheer enormity of this magnum opus has left me humbled. But I do wish to make two little dedications.
To all the members of the Doula gang, who were part of this brilliant operation, I dedicate this post – my 200th so far. And this infant rose bush from my backyard.
It is not much of a looker right now. Short and stumpy, wrinkled in places, sensitive, temperamental, needing to be swaddled. Almost exactly like a newborn.
But I promise you, every time I tend to it, every time I water it and will it to grow and pour it with love, I will think of you, the Doula Gang.
I will say thanks in a prayer in my heart for bringing me to a place and time where I came into contact with each of you.
With every new leaf that emerges, I will think of a new blogger I’ve discovered. With every branch that grows, I will think of how you branched out and reached to me. With every flower that blooms, I will think of the relationship that blossoms in these comment sections.
The plant will grow, slowly, steadily, like a growing child. And I will protect it and cherish it with all my heart, like I do with the friendships formed here.
Thank you Doula Gang for this incredible experience. I will remember this lifelong.
Heck, for this kind of a shower, I could go through the nauseas and aches and pains of pregnancy all over again!!!



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April 25, 2008 at 10:00 am
Mallika
Our pleasure . Clever clever girl to have figured it out ! All the best for the rest of your pregnancy!
sorry to say I wasn’t subscribed to you before, but that is about to change
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Hello, Eve’s lungs
April 25, 2008 at 10:24 am
B o o.
There you go, another touching post! You guys are amazing! I hope to God every memeber of the Doula Gang is wiping enough tears for every wink I lost last night!
As I am repeating myself over and over again, we are truly blessed!
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and that’s how we thank them? me like!
April 25, 2008 at 10:26 am
Tharini
Till now, I did not shed a single tear. To be honest, even though I was excited yesterday and today, I felt spent of every emotion after all the backstage action this past month. And I was feeling very subdued that it is all over and now what…
The tears flowed over your words. I saw the frail, wrinkled, needing to be swaddled rosebush and I cried. I relate to the emotion you are feeling now. The humbling of oneself, the kneeling down to pay homage to something larger than life itself.
Today, on another level, we have connected. I am *thrilled* and grateful we could all do this for you…my deserving little MTB!
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You deserve one HUGE round of applause for toiling day and night on this (thats what I heard from everyone) and of course, that mega sundae from Oberweis. As long as they are tears of relief and joy, am glad I made you cry
April 25, 2008 at 11:09 am
Gauri
This is the second time in a day that you’ve made me cry K’s Mom.
In your post as well as your email I could feel the vibes – right out of the bottom of your heart and it touched me. It did !!
Am glad and feel so totally blessed that I could be a part of this baby shower. Really.
Thank you, Volde..I mean, Gauri
how could you be evil after having put together such an amazing site!
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April 25, 2008 at 11:27 am
Altoid
We certainly enjoyed the entire deal, no vacation package could come this close. And that site is your ivillage! Help yourself to the bounty.
Have a good weekend
-altoid
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and you, Miss! I will have to deal with you separately!
ivillage?? all the ivillages in the world can’t match the wealth you’ve put together!
April 25, 2008 at 11:37 am
yaadayaada
Thanks to all the organizing ladies and MTBs, it was great fun! You MTBs are really smart and you guys express your emotions beautifully in words!
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thank you, YY! I can imagine how difficult it must have been to be zipped under your sibling’s pressure
April 25, 2008 at 11:59 am
K3
Now I am in tears, happy Boo!
What a joyous ride it was indeed, glad you all loved the treasure … and here’s to happy rest of days till the big day!
Hugs!
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Thank you, thank you, K3! we thought the clue on your site was so obvious, that it obviously led us to the wrong place
April 25, 2008 at 12:01 pm
sandeepa
Hey Kodis Mom,
I wasn’t in the Gang, but loads of best wishes to you on your blog-shower
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thanks..how’ve you been? hope you’re back to active blogging..
April 25, 2008 at 12:14 pm
daisy
Kodi’s mom,
Thanks to Tharini( for inviting me to the D gang) and thanks to all you wonderful MTBs, I feel so blessed to be among such caring poeple.You really made me cry… really..
God bless you and the lil one in your tummy and kodi pappa too..
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aww, Daisy! one of the things that touched me was how many non-mommies were involved in this, heart and soul and all…thanks a bunch. now if you don’t mind me sounding like a grandma, when’s your turn??
April 25, 2008 at 12:16 pm
ddmom
Ah, Finally I got to your comments space. For some reason, this page kept timing out.
This morning I had a regular everyday fight with the husband over misplacing the remote. A little later I was reading this post teary eyed. He saw me and says, arre baba, itne se baat ke liye rone lagein? I said, No, these are tears of joy.
Such a touching and beautiful post. God bless you.
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LOL! I bet the husband rolled his eyes at his blog addicted wife! happens here all the time
April 25, 2008 at 12:16 pm
mnamma
Loads of hugs to you Kodi’s Mom! And a very sweet likening between a fledgling rose bush and a new born and your dedication is a really moving gesture!
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thank you, mnamma, it pales in comparison to what you all have done!
April 25, 2008 at 12:28 pm
Sujatha
Awwwww. Sniff. Lovely, lovely post Kodi’s Mom. Sniff. All of us truly had such a lovely time plotting and planning. Hugs to you and congratulations.
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your poem on the About page was just astounding! why aren’t you a published poet??
April 25, 2008 at 12:28 pm
Orchid
O.k..I am one tough cookie and my posts speak for that..I like to believe i have a healthy sense of humor and like to laugh life off most of the time..I joined this whole thing thinking how much fun it would be..since I love hosting, throwing and being a part of parties, anyway…what I did not sign up for was the waterworks..and i was doing quite welll till I saw this post…so, kodi’s mom…you are guilty of making me cry!! and that is a huge crime!
U bad girl! i am not reading this post again..I dont like to cry!
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Orchie in tears?? It is going to snow in Houston today! “dang”!
April 25, 2008 at 12:42 pm
Collection Of Stars
This post was so beautiful and touching.
I feel as humbled as you to have been part of this beautiful idea. Thanks to Tharini and the whole group who put so much effort into this.
I just followed all the instructions
You MTBs are real smart to have cracked the riddles well ahead of time.
God bless you and your little ones
*Hugs*
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your joint effort sparkled – exactly like a collection of stars
April 25, 2008 at 12:49 pm
Neera
Many many best wishes once again Kodi’s mom. Like everybody else, your touching post left me too bleary eyed with all the working overtime tear glands.
HAve a wonderful wonderful rest of the pregnancy and a blessed motherhood.
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aww, give yourself and those tear glands a rest…you guys have worked way too hard!
April 25, 2008 at 1:34 pm
Shobana
Really moved by your words KM. You ladies totally deserve this and many more.
excellent team work by all of you…
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your clue had me in circles too! because I’d already matched Suki elsewhere
April 25, 2008 at 3:26 pm
desigirl
hey!
this was sure worth getting knocked up for eh?
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precisely what I said in the last line, in a more G rated manner
April 25, 2008 at 3:43 pm
mystic margarita
What a lovely post, Kodi’s mom! You got me all senti comparing the doula gang with the rose bush! Aww…hugs. It’s been a wonderful, enriching experience for all of us, too. Glad you girls loved it, too. You were all super smart! And you got the riddle on my blog in a jiffy…didn’t you? lol
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the alpbahet train was an easy giveaway, wasn’t so sure abt teh nikon and adobe, but had to take a shot!
April 25, 2008 at 3:46 pm
mynanhipari
Best wishes Kodi’s mom and all the MTB’s!!!! Missed Tharini’s email (which went into my spam) and never had a clue about this online shower being hosted for you guys until y’day. Would have loved to be a part of the D-gang.
What a great idea Tharini……!!!! I am so touched on how this whole thing was planned and hosted for all the MTB’s:) and what a touchy post Kodi’s mom……you made me cry. God bless you
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sorry you missed the email! What a bummer gmail can be!
April 25, 2008 at 4:09 pm
noon
Beautiful post Kodi’s mom. Just straight from the heart and it shows…and that picture and the sentiment that goes with it – really lovely…you have such warmth in your words…
Lots of love…
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thank you, Noon for your sweet words..
April 25, 2008 at 4:10 pm
mayG
aww….i am so touched I just can’t think of anything to say..
had one question tho…HOW IN THE WORLD did you figure out my riddle??
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boy, yours was the toughest! and last one we cracked…I had visited one of your blogs long ago – and when Amritha’s was leading nowhere, we figured it had to be someone we don’t subscribe to…then I remembered Tharini raving abt your templates long ago…and after that it was all google – did you find repeated “mayg Blog” searches in your log? – that was me
April 25, 2008 at 4:17 pm
rayshma
i’ve been lurking here since i got tharini’s mail
finally, i can comment!!
you gurls deserve all of this.. and so much more!
pleasure to know u… BIG hug!
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your clue was such a pleasure to solve! the two bits of francais I know finally came handy
April 25, 2008 at 6:59 pm
daisy
arre yaar, I keep asking my hubby the same question – ” mera number kab aayega..”.. sigh.. and all this baby talk is really really tempting me.. but we do want to have a kid and will start the process soon
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LOL! you know the process involves a lot of practice, don’t you?
April 25, 2008 at 7:21 pm
Maggie
Sigh… everything I want to say, said so beautifully…
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guess we both will be hanging out at the shower site everyday for the next month or so!
April 25, 2008 at 9:44 pm
theradicalancient
Another non-Mommy here, and do NOT ask when my time is coming, lol!
Every time I read one of your replies, I get this splitting grin on my face that makes exam-time so much better
. Thank you so so much for enjoying it so overflowingly!
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LOL! nah, that would be highly inappropriate to ask of a teenybopper! (God! I was so sure I had you with the momo thing – you do have a tattoo, don’t you?)
April 25, 2008 at 9:44 pm
Poppins
Oh you girls are such good writers. *Sniff*
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is there any other way of showing our gratitude – other than to make ‘em cry?!
April 25, 2008 at 11:04 pm
Lavs
Ah, that rose bush.**Sniff sniff**
“I will say thanks in a prayer in my heart for bringing me to a place and time where I came into contact with each of you.”
I completely, absolutely and wholly agree with each and every word of yours mentioned above.
God is indeed great. He makes His presence felt in unimaginable ways. Three cheers to the Doula Gang.
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incredible team work, is what I keep repeating!
April 25, 2008 at 11:33 pm
~nm
You have written it so beautifully! Every time I read posts from you MTBs and what you are feeling right now about this baby shower, makes tears well up in my eyes! And yes! We knew how much all this would mean to all of you an thats exactly this was initiated!
A big BUG to you KM!
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you know, I was expecting a clue from or about you – you guys set it up so the most obvious ones weren’t in the chain…clever, clever!
April 26, 2008 at 8:22 am
Squiggles Mom
That’s just beautiful K’s mom. A fitting tribute to all the hard work that went on beyond the scenes by Tharini & Co. I’m glad it meant so much to you.
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my words are limited in expressing how much it meant…
April 26, 2008 at 9:59 am
Rohini
Yeah, the rest of us got pretty motivated to get started on making our next babies too
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empty crib- check, motivation – check, ingredients – check, I’m sure…so what’s the wait for?!
April 26, 2008 at 1:22 pm
the mad momma
okay that rose bush just made me cry. … hug
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hugs back! I loved, loved your messages for us – left a comment on it..
April 26, 2008 at 1:34 pm
DotMom
awwww K’s mom… next time I need a kleenex alert.. very touching post!
maybe I should make a graphic for it, like your anti-jinx one!
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April 26, 2008 at 8:27 pm
mayG
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are you kidding! after this, you’ll be the most wanted designer on blogosphere…better ramp up the security!
more than i was sure that finding me would be the toughest, i was half sure you begged and pleaded and threatened tharini into giving this one out ;D
god bless google? hehe..
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yea, that would have been my next step – to find something I can bribe T with
April 26, 2008 at 9:26 pm
dipali
That was just so beautiful, Kodi’s Mom.
I was so wrong on yours, it isn’t even funny!
All the very very best to you. ( I just love the infant rose plant).
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welcome to the blog, Dipali, I mean dinky vertebrate from Science city
April 26, 2008 at 9:33 pm
Random Vignettes
Oh god…why dont I just give up and just let the tears flow instead of trying to hold it in…
The rose bush? It is such a beautiful gesture…
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well, hello there! did you find the trail? can you believe what these guys had in store!
April 27, 2008 at 12:51 am
swati
You are most welcome Kodi’s mom..:) Have a great time !
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will enjoy every bit of it in the many weeks to come, and no, I haven’t finished reading all the wishes – have to do it in little little chunks!
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April 27, 2008 at 12:34 pm
theradicalancient
LOL!
I adore momos, but no, I don’t have a tattoo. My signature is the bandanna
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I am so hopeless
April 27, 2008 at 7:22 pm
Dee
awwww…that is such a sweet post
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least I could do…
April 27, 2008 at 9:50 pm
Bangaloremom
Awwww!! What a beautiful post Kodi’s mom!! Just wanted you to know that we had a Lot of fun being a part of this as well…thank you for bringing us all together (even though you did’nt know about it!!). It could’nt have been for a better cause!!
(Hugs)
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sweet how you are thanking us for bringing you together !
and now I have to play “match the following” in my head as I read thru the posts and figure out who is who!
April 27, 2008 at 10:19 pm
Aryan's mom
wowow…what a lovely post yaar..I can see the truthful touching voice coming from your heart…
Ahh..i was not in the game!!!!, just because I did not see the tharani’s invitation which went in the bulk folder..That is why like a stupid i was commenting on all the blogs and guessing answers…..Even though I was not involved in the riddle, mentally I am always with you guys…..I am proud to be in this blog world…
AM
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oh Aryan’s Mom, I am so sorry you missed out…and if it makes you feel any better, your spirited support means a heck of a lot to us!
April 27, 2008 at 10:31 pm
Compulsive Dreamer
Hi Kodi’s mom,
a little late to comment… when Tharini invited me to join the Doula gang, I couldnt believe how lucky and privileged i was, and the feeling kept increasing as I saw the effort and the emotion that went into organising this baby shower! I feel proud to be a part of this gang and happy that you guys really liked the whole exercise
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you with the head in the clouds! I guessed yours right away, you know!
*struts away proudly at one of her handful of correct guesses*
April 27, 2008 at 11:51 pm
Mona
glad you enjoyed it so much.
we loved doing it.
the riddles were extraordinary, weren’t they?! and how beautiful is that blog?!
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Did you see how much fun they had with your name?! I got to look up that spreadsheet to see who riddled yours…
April 28, 2008 at 10:56 am
Rohini
Critical missing ingredient – no time/ energy for adequate amount of baby-making activity (too much information?)
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well, the Queen’s city is abt to fix that, na?!
April 28, 2008 at 11:08 am
orchid
good there was no reference to dallas in my riddle..or else you would’ve never guessed becoz u think I ma form houston!
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oh damn, at some point I knew it was dallas – must have got it mixed up with Chintu’s mom…one thing’s for sure, you guys have left us all muddled in our heads, if this had gone any longer, we wouldn’t have known our own blog urls!
April 28, 2008 at 10:15 pm
mummyjaan
What a wonderful thank-you that was, Kodi’s mom! Thank you, thank you. Look after yourself now, and get some rest – was an exciting weekend now, wasn’t it?
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an exciting third trimester, more like! The buzz will be alive for a long time!
April 29, 2008 at 1:39 am
Rohini
Er…. not quite. Four adults, one kid, one bedroom – you do the maths
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woman! thats no vacation – you got to do something abt it!
April 29, 2008 at 4:15 am
Nisha
*sniff*sniff*… such a lovely post. Thanks.
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there’s really no way to show how guys much it meant!
April 29, 2008 at 11:52 am
IBH
though I couldnt actively participate in this one! i am happy and proud of this whole Doula Gang gals
DGG
good one KM….and hey how far are u now?
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DGG, it is! due date is june 1st week
April 29, 2008 at 11:55 pm
trishnap
Awwww.So sweet Kodi’s mom.. I am in tears now..:) hugs to you.. so wonderfully written.
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thanks, Trishna…and whoever wrote your riddle, just wait till I get my hands on them!
April 30, 2008 at 1:42 am
itchingtowrite
aww how sweeet of u to link up the rose & the shower
baby names that i love- asmi, ishanvi, aishani, ashlesha,
boys – pradyumna (though it sounds heavy), Akshat,
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lovely names, added to master list
May 1, 2008 at 1:36 am
Bird's eye View
I love your thought of the rose bush…I wanted to be on both sides of the shower!
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